teenager
In this article, we will try to present the problem of what is known as the teenager stage in many ways
And we try to understand its truth
First, what is a teenager
It is a period in a person’s life between childhood and adulthood, when the child reaches the stage of physical maturity and does not reach the stage of emotional maturity
This variation may cause behavior disruption due to the unusual hormonal flow
Secondly, what are the causes of adolescence
Or more precisely, why don't emotional, mental and physical reactions happen at the same time?
We can also say where this situation was hiding in past slogans why the ancients did not talk about it
Why did you choose this age to appear?
And the answer is as the teenager or adult child comes as I like to call it
He is a person who went through a fake childhood stage and then needed a real childhood period during which he would be compensated by the fake childhood he went through
We are the children’s entire life. We teach them not to take responsibility, and when they grow up, we expect them to start taking responsibility directly. This results in a set of future problems.
Including marital infidelity, lack of thinking about marriage and bad morals, and this is what we will address in a separate topic
The child in the early stages of his life needs to play so you have to play with him and talk to him and until you deal with him and your education to him is through play and avoid punishing him as much as possible before seven years
In the second stage of his life after seven, you must discipline him through warning and disciplinary punishments, but you must know that the punishment in it self is not a goal for you but rather a means
To arrive at the wrong behavior calendar, and if there are other methods than punishment, it will be better
The third stage of a person’s life from fourteen years to twenty one years
Friendship stage You have to be one of your son's friends because it is the stage that begins the psychological separation between him and his parents and he acquires a completely independent personality and during this sensitive stage you must speak with your son as a friend and not as a son and this is to remain in the circle of his life in order to protect him from the dangerous dangerous slides For bad friends and misconceptions that cause his misery for the rest of his life, try to be one of your son's friends.
When your son turns twenty years old, make sure that he is a perfect man, and that does not mean that the relationship between you and the relationship between you and the son’s relationship with his father remains until the end of your life with respect, but an independent life.
Your concern for your son does not mean that you will neglect yourself, but rather that you are the support and protection for your son
Finally, I want to thank you for your patience to read my small article, but it took a lot of thought
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